It’s hard to believe that Princeton Lawnparties are going on at school at this very moment as I write this. It pains me not to be there. My seersucker oxford has been staring wistfully at me all day. In the spirit of Lawnparties, however, this posting will at least include a couple drinking stories.
This past weekend has been a shockingly social one for me. I generally spend many of my evenings walking around Ryogoku, trying different ramen shops, attempting in vain to distinguish one from another. This weekend, in comparison, has been pretty busy.
I know I swore off Roppongi after my adventure there last week, but my grad student friends (ever-dwindling in number, as they finish up their lab work in Tokyo) invited me to go out again, and I wasn’t about to decline the opportunity for company. The ensemble this time included the same American girl and two Italian guys that I’ve been hanging out with, but they also brought their Colombian friend along this time. I thought we made for a pretty international little posse. The night was fairly similar to the one last week except I drank much less, so the night went by much slower. I also talked for a while with a girl who says she teaches at the British school of Tokyo, and I (very randomly) bumped into a guy who is Princeton ’98. We still ended up with about five rounds of free shots at Geronimo (I love that gong!), but I stopped drinking by 2:45 when we headed to the club. Roppongi is definitely seedy, and I can see why it’s so popular with foreigners, but it’s the perfect place to go out if you enjoy dancing with middle-aged Japanese women.
I’ve been in touch with a girl who graduated from Princeton in ’07, and though we didn’t know each other at all Princeton, she’s been extraordinarily kind in helping me get acclimated in Tokyo. Ami had invited me out to lunch on Saturday with another girl from her hometown. The three of us met for lunch in Shibuya, and it was pretty cool to exchange stories about life in Tokyo and to hear what they think of this insane city. Ami has been working at an American bank in Tokyo, and the other girl has spent the last ten months at a Japanese software company. I was definitely impressed.
After lunch, Ami, who’s fluent in Japanese, was kind enough to volunteer to help me get a Japanese cell phone, which has been high on my to-do list for a while now. Even in Shibuya, which has a large population of foreigners, signing a cell phone plan was incredibly complicated. There’s no way I could have done it without Ami.
Ami and I also took a little time to walk around Shibuya. This was my first time in Shibuya, and like many districts in Tokyo, it’s absolutely crazy.
I’ll have to read up on it, but Ami explained that Shibuya is known—among other things—for containing the largest and busiest crosswalk in the world (after traversing it, I believe it!); a huge number of stores selling ridiculous sneakers; the “Shibuya girls,” trashy-looking Japanese girls with dyed brown hair and short shorts; and a large house music scene. It's also the district of Tokyo featured in Lost in Translation. I definitely need to go back to explore more, but Ami and I did stumble upon a random street matsuri happening!
Traditional Japanese Matsuri in Shibuya in front of a McDonald's and a Condomania.
Later that evening, I found myself invited to a dinner party at the apartment of this twenty-something year-old Japanese guy. His roommate is Spanish but doesn’t speak Japanese, so they speak English at home. The Spanish guy had his brother and three friends visiting from Madrid, and the Japanese guy invited two of his friends over, so once again, it was an incredibly international evening! Even though I was the only one for whom English was a first language, English was the only language everyone had in common, so we spoke English all night. The Spaniards made Spanish tortilla omelets (which I’ve never had before), and the Japanese prepared rice and miso soup with special miso paste from Nagoya; I felt like I should’ve contributed hamburgers or buffalo wings or something. The food was delicious, the company was nice, and the beer was plentiful. Hearing so much Spanish even made me feel (a little) like I was in Tucson. The whole experience—eating Spanish omelets and miso soup in Tokyo—was absurd but in an awesome way. It was definitely one of those classic PiA experiences that I’m learning to love and that make all the frustrations of being here worthwhile.
Ryogoku dinner party with my Japanese and Spanish friends. Note the ground-level table.